The longer my girls go to school and the older they get the more I realize how fast kids are growing up today. It scares me because I have a 7 and 10 year old talking about sex and kissing and using words that I never knew existed until I was in Jr. High.
The question is where are they learning this stuff? Is it TV, older siblings, the parents? If you really look at the world around us the answer would have to be society in general which consists of everything and everyone. Everywhere you look there is sex, looking sexy, driving a sexy cars, sexy music showing skin. How is it possible for kids to grow up and not know about it unless you stick them in a bubble and don’t expose them to the world at all.
I now that I cannot do that, but I do have the power to be an example for them at home and teach them what is right and wrong, listen to them when they want to tell me what their friends are telling them so I can explain to them the truth about love and their bodies are not to be exposed for popularity because when they do that they are not honoring themselves but showing people that they have no respect for themselves.
I know the norm is “To Show It Off” but my questions is what will it get you. Will you earn ‘real’ respect and popularity because people respect you for your integrity, or will you get fake respect because you are going along with the crowd and pleasing them but lose it if you don’t.
True respect and honor come from discipline and self control. Who would you rather have at your side when it truly mattered? Someone who goes along with the crowd and has no idea who they really are, or a person who takes the reigns and leads and knows where they are going and who they are?
This is what I am trying to teach my children that no matter what it is better to have one friend who likes you for who you really are and keep your honor then to have a hundred friends who you cannot count on when you really need help.
Life is hard why make it harder by pressuring these kids to grow up faster then they should. Let your kids enjoy playing with toys and make believing they are super heroes because they can never get that back once they forget it.